Who's stopping us from attaining the distinction's of life?

There is an old saying “ fresh new Apple's added into the basket of already rotten ones, would ultimately spoil the newly added ones”.

In life, we come across a lot of negative people, and it becomes difficult to deal with if they are one among our own friends, relatives, colleagues, partner’s & the worse is if they are within our own family. There could be various reasons behind why they behave the way they do, it could be due to their upbringing, their experience, the influence they might have had from their elders as they were growing up. It could be many things like complaining, procrastination, cribbing, swearing, passing the buck & seeking sympathy ., Etc. However, none of these can contribute to your life's progression & it could limit your positive thinking. Instead, it drags us down from all walks of life. Yet, What you can’t do is to change them, especially when they’re old today. That’s the fact of the matter!

But, what you could do is change ‘Yourself’ & the way you perceive things, as our elders don’t come from this generation to be able to think like you & me. I believe it’s simply a waste of time & energy to make them understand it, either.

Things which are ‘in our control are the 'quality of thoughts & our beliefs.’ As they say, our ‘outer world is a mere reflection of our inner world.’ So the best possible solution is to stop lending our ears to such negative talks, the best is to excuse ourselves out of such unproductive discussions. And then, always be wary of our thoughts as it would come back at us. Let me also add to it ‘The anger, hatred, jealousy one holds on to doesn’t just destroy our outside world but it also destroys the inner peace as well, as it possesses the power to even impact the cells within the body, thereby causing a huge imbalance on our health & well-being. So, kindly, let go of all the toxic & unsupportive thoughts or beliefs.

So, what's the solution..?

Surround yourself with winners & a positive mindset. The company which you are amongst, could be one of the primary reasons for your current situation, as they might not have any goals, But the worse is they could be dragging you down instead, without your knowledge.

It's safe to surround ourselves with those who’d push you to achieve. If you are a student try to be with those who are out-performing always, if you are at work spend your time with those who are exceptional at finishing the tasks within the given time with diligence & most importantly who doesn't waste time Gossiping, And finally if you are into a business then its better to be in the company of those who have got some higher goals or vision. If you aren’t able to find such a person in your company or group then get a Coach, a Mentor, or a Guru who shall guide you, the all-time greats like Oprah Winfrey, Barack Obama, Steve Job’s, Bruce Lee, Sachin Tendulkar, Rajnikanth & many more have credited their respective Coaches or Gurus on many occasions. But I’d like to warn you that the Coaches or Guru’s aren’t going to sound sweet always. They would poke straight into your eyes as straight & sharp as a needle, be ready to accept the feedback & work on it, or be ready to suffer this regret throughout the entire life.

The world today is no longer the world of might, gone are the days when they used to say “Survival of the fittest”, the person who possessed a strong physique was known to be powerful, also, back then swords & weapons used to win the battle but Today, it’s ruled by those who have a great intellect, who are Skilled & possess a strong sound-mind!

Even Fear, guilt, rejections, low self-esteem can come as a hindrance in the way of success. A Coach, Mentor's assistance is certainly required to overcome all these.

The irony today! people hire coaches to build their physique but hardly anyone wants to hire a life-coach or a health-coach for their inner well-being & mental upliftment.

Well, The reason why one needs to go for a personal coach or guru is that we ourselves or the people in our known circle might not possess the experience in life to deal with the different situations, be it varied people, mindset or overcoming the difficult times, but I can easily recommend that a Coach, a Guru, or a Mentor is going to that right person to be able to guide you, direct you with all that is required to achieve the goals, that which hardly any friend, a relative would ever have known. Even if they would, they might not like to reveal it, even after they’ might have achieved some success.

In case, If one is unable to do all of these, it's better to at least stay away from the negative & toxic people so that we don’t become a new member of their unworthy-company or group. Thereby allowing only miseries & failures in your life.